Over the past few weeks, we’ve been talking a lot about identity, truth, and falsehood. A couple of weeks ago, I wrote a post about the benefit of limiting beliefs, and how limiting beliefs allow us to discover profound truths lurking behind lies that are particularly troubling to us.
Today, I’d like to introduce you to a powerful technique that can help you actually flip falsehood on its head.
Start with the areas of your life that are causing you the most pain. Look for emotionally charged beliefs about a situation. Once you have identified a situation like this in your life, ask yourself the following questions.
1. Identify a belief that is causing you a lot of pain.
2. Ask yourself: how does it make me feel? What thoughts, reactions and feelings do I have when I think about having that belief?
3. Ask yourself: is that really true?
4. Ridicule it. Expose how it is absolutely false, warped and skewed. Find evidence that proves it’s not true.
5. Ask yourself: who would I be without that belief? How would I think, feel and act toward myself if I didn’t believe that?
6. Ask yourself: what is the exact opposite of that belief? What would my life be like with this new, opposite belief? List all the possibilities.
7. Find evidence that it’s true. List as many examples as possible with real-life people and situations that validate this belief. Be specific. (Helpful hint: what areas and experiences in your life make you feel really, really good?)
8. Act on it. List one specific action step you can take in the next 72 hours that would validate this empowering belief.
Remember: 95% of ALL your daily thoughts, actions and behaviors are governed by your beliefs! There is almost NOTHING more important than choosing beliefs about yourself that are in-line with that which is most empowering and positive.
What techniques have you used to flip falsehood on its head?
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